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Our Hope is a publication and support group to help Christian women persevere through the trials of life. 

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The purpose of Our Hope:
  • To increase our knowledge of the Word of God which will enable us to be victorious over the trials and temptations that go hand in hand with the physical tribulations in life.
  • To support and encourage each other.
  • To share ideas on how to make daily life easier while living with debilitating pain and fatigue, with emphasis on our service to our family and to others.
  • To help educate on the needs of those undergoing trials.

WHO ARE WE?

pat.jpgEDITOR: Hello. My name is Pat Gates. Welcome to Our Hope, a publication for women who are undergoing various trials in life. Here's a little about myself: I'm 55 years old, the mother of two boys (one married), and grandmother of Dacey.  One of my sons was born with severe congenital heart disease and I understand all the heartache of raising a child with physical infirmity, as well as all the blessings and joys, which are many! . I have lived with chronic illness since 1992; the medical terminology being "Pathological attentional and intentional gating of sensory information" and "Pathologic preparation for movement." In other words, something is wrong with what controls the input and output of sensory information and "preparation for movement" systems so that my brain misinterprets sensory information and the signals that give my body needed energy for movement are disrupted. This results in weakness, fatigue and various neurological symptoms. And now, 17 years later, I've just been diagnosed with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.  

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cg_02-1.jpgCO-EDITOR: Hi.  I'm Cindy Granke. My husband, Arnie, preaches for the Woodland church of Christ in Sumter, S.C. (and in recent years has also worked with the American Red Cross).  We were married in 1967 and have been blessed with three children, (one of whom was killed in an automobile accident in 2000); and eleven grandchildren, (one of whom died at birth).   I'm 64 years young. (~_~)   About 14 years ago I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, after living with debilitating symptoms for several years before finding a doctor who recognized the illness. More recently I was diagnosed with diabetes. Over the past few years my ability to have folks over to my home, or to visit has become limited.  Learning to use the computer opened up a whole new world of opportunity for teaching, and encouraging others, as well as myself.  During the months after my daughter died I prayed that God would give me the strength, and opportunity to help others who suffer through that terrible emptiness.  When Pat asked me to help her with Our Hope, I knew my prayer had been answered. 

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STAFF WRITERS:

Joanne2.jpgJOANNE BECKLEY:  I am the daughter of a preacher with a wonderful heritage of the gospel of Jesus Christ from four generations who lived before I came along. I grew up wanting to marry my own "preacher-man" and we would go to far-away places to share the light of the gospel I had been so privileged to grow up within. Today, my preacher-man and I live in South Africa where he travels between Zimbabwe and South Africa carrying that same light. We reared our three sons in this country and they now live in the States and have provided us with five grandchildren and a sixth one soon to be adopted.

I'm just an ordinary woman who loves the sunshine. Even though I often have to play the "Glad Game" (taken from the book "Pollyanna") when I am faced with problems this world hands out to all of us, I do love to share smiles with all I meet. It is when I receive in return what I call "lost smiles" that I realize yet again that we are not alone with our pain, our fears, our loneliness. Our Hope was designed to help each other through the hope that Jesus offers each one of us. May my participation be of help in some small way.

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web_site_pic_Joyce5.JPGJOYCE JAMERSON: Hello to all; my name is Joyce Jamerson.  I’m happy to join Pat, Cindy & JoAnn for some occasional writing for Our Hope.  We all know one another and have for some years now.  Although I was born in Ohio; raised in Virginia, and have lived in several southeastern states, my home now is Killen, Alabama.  My preacher husband and I live fairly close to one of our three sons; the other two live about 2 ½ hours away, so we like seeing them and the seven grandchildren more often.   

Our youngest child and only daughter died suddenly in 1993, due to a malignant brain tumor.   All of our children teach us lessons of life; not only in their years at home, but as they marry and leave home and yes, even in death.  As a result, I have authored a book, “Will you wipe my tears?” and it was released in early February, ‘08.  It deals primarily with helping others in times of sorrow.Trauma has a way of affecting health issues, so for some years now, I have lived with interstitial cystitis, fibromyalgia and celiac disease.  A dietary approach seems to suit me best, so proper diet is a constant concern.

My hobby, when I’m not working in the resource room at church or writing children’s Bible lessons, is quilting.  I love to cut up fabric and sew it back together again!  

Our Hope has been a source of encouragement to me, so now, perhaps I can also be of encouragement to you.

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Kathey.JPGKATHEY FREEMAN: I am 54 years old, and I live in San Antonio, Texas.  My  husband, Doug, was in the United States Air Force for 29 years before retiring 2 ½ years ago.  Moving with the Air Force was very difficult for me, physically, but we have traveled to many places and have been so blessed by the Christians that came into our lives along the way.  We moved back to San Antonio shortly before Doug retired, and we worship with the West Ave. church of Christ in San Antonio.

We have two wonderful children.  Our son, Joshua, is 20 years old and is a junior at Texas A & M University in College Station. Our daughter, Elizabeth, is 18 and will soon be a freshman at A & M.  I used to agonize over the fact that they had never known what it was like to have a mother who wasn’t sick, but they have been such blessings in my life.

I have not had diabetes as long, but I have lived with lupus and fibromyalgia for a long time.  It is my hope that any coping skills that I have learned can be a benefit to others. 


HOW IT ALL BEGAN


Hi. Pat here. In 1992, my life changed due to an unknown debilitating illness that caused severe weakness, fatigue and neurological symptoms. I went through all the range of emotions during those first two years and I discovered the impact chronic illness had, not only on my body, but in my emotional and spiritual life. While I had an encouraging and supportive husband and family, I prayed daily to talk with another Christian woman who understood, from personal experience, what I was going through.


One day, my prayer was answered in a letter that arrived in the mail. Sue Love, a Christian who lived with Myasthenia Gravis, had heard about me and wrote me an encouraging letter, explaining how she understood the daily trials that go hand in hand with chronic illness. Because our continued correspondence helped me so much and because I realized how ignorant I had been of what it was like to live with infirmity, the idea of a support group for  chronically ill Christians came into mind. Thus Our Hope began in 1994 in paper form. The title came easy because it wasn't until my illness struck, that I fully realized my only true hope was in Jesus Christ. This Hope, never disappoints!


A few years ago a friend introduced Cindy Granke to me (via e-mail). As we continued to correspond,  I came to admire Cindy's faith, endurance and sense of humor she displayed throughout her illness and I found her to be a trustworthy and understanding friend. We had been e-mail friends for several years when I received a phone call from a mutual friend telling me that Cindy's daughter had been involved in a car accident and wasn't expected to survive. With the loss of her daughter, Erica, Cindy held fast to her faith and hope in God and as time went on she began reaching out to others who had lost loved ones, even when this meant having to re-live her own painful loss. Due to her sincere love for others, her Bible knowledge and her good common sense approach to the trials in this life,  I have asked her to help with this publication. Not only in the loss of Erica, but in the loss she has experienced from chronic pain and fatigue, she has a good understanding of our physical, emotional and spiritual needs.


I was very pleased when Joanne Beckley, Joyce Jamerson, and Kathey Freeman agreed to join us. They are graceful women who love the Lord and have a special caring and affection for others. Their faith and experience in teaching, writing, and in their own personal trials have encouraged and strengthened many.


We hope and pray this website will be helpful to you and that you, in turn, will have a means by which you can encourage others to persevere in faith and hope.



DISCLAIMER
 

Websites, products, ideas, opinions, etc. that may be mentioned in this website are not necessarily endorsed by the editors or staff writers of Our Hope. Any links provided are for information only, or are used in agreement to copy articles, graphics etc. The reader should examine all spiritual content in accordance with the Word of God. Any medical content should be discussed with your doctor. All matters concerning physical and mental health should be supervised by a health practitioner knowledgeable in treating that particular condition. This publisher does not directly or indirectly dispense medical advice and does not prescribe any remedies or assume any responsibility for those who choose to treat themselves.

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Please pray for our wisdom in this effort. We never want to go beyond what God has revealed, nor take away from God's revelation. On matters of opinion, I realize all of us may vary, especially when it comes to how we handle our everyday situations. We are all individuals and what may work for me, doesn't necessarily mean it's best for you. Share your experiences and ideas because you may be able to help all of us in a way that we have not thought about.

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